Negativity - so easy to get into, yet we all know how it turn things out. It reflects not only in our way of thinking, but also with our words and actions. Things that can hurt not only others but even ourselves. Causing our own depression. Starting our own madness. Question is, why put ourselves into such situation if we can avoid it?
It all starts with our way of thinking. We are all vulnerable with just a simple mishap. As human we react by countering it with negativity - just to place ourselves in what we think is better. And as it consumes our mind, so does our tongue. Filling it with words we often regret after saying. As soon as these words are released, then our behavior changes. One's auto defense to cover up what we had started. And when we do, it becomes a habit - a habit so hard to break that it becomes our values. Values that we often keep. Determining our destiny. Destiny that we didn't want nor plan from the start of this all.
Good news is, it's never too late to start something. Change the way you think over things whether good or bad. Believe in your own strength, but never be afraid to ask help. Ask. The reason why there are other people is to help one another. Speak and you shall receive. This will enable us build a relationship. A relationship that will only grow with values that worth keeping. And as we keep it, it becomes a ritual. An everyday thing that we do unconditionally. Not knowing that the good that we do, is the same thing that will bring us to something brighter. Now that's destiny.
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And in celebration of positive outlook in life, we thought of having a floral theme for this week's post. Flowers are nothing but sweetness and good vibes. Never fail in giving us the giggles and the butterflies. I'm wearing this dress that I got from Bloggers United 5. Neat floral patterns in a very girly color and design. And it did captured the look I am aiming for.
It's always fun to experiment even in fashion and style. I decided to mix and match what I had in my closet and Tada! Here's what I came up with. Yep, those are stockings I'm wearing. An absolute essential in every woman's wardrobe. It makes you look bold and stylish. I don't know if its just me, but these garments makes me feel sexier.
I matched my outfit with these stylish flats from Parisian. Adding up my new necklace from Forever 21. And I just love it! And to complete my look, I'm wearing my new pink G-lide from G Shock.
The theme proves to be a though one for his side. It's a bit tricky but I must say, he nailed it quite good. My man is wearing a mint button down shirt with floral accents. Attention to details, that is his thing.
Covered by a gray cardigan, matched with mustard chinos. Keeping it light and neutral.
The brown leather soles are from Milanos. Finishing it off with a breezy green watch from G-Shock.
Let me quote the Father of Nation Mahatma Gandhi: " Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. " Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny. This sums up everything we need to know about positivity. :)
xoxo,
KC
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