Thursday, July 25, 2013

Positivism


Negativity - so easy to get into, yet we all know how it turn things out. It reflects not only in our way of thinking, but also with our words and actions. Things that can hurt not only others but even ourselves. Causing our own depression. Starting our own madness. Question is, why put ourselves into such situation if we can avoid it?




It all starts with our way of thinking. We are all vulnerable with just a simple mishap. As human we react by countering it with negativity - just to place ourselves in what we think is better. And as it consumes our mind, so does our tongue. Filling it with words we often regret after saying. As soon as these words are released, then our behavior changes. One's auto defense to cover up what we had started. And when we do, it becomes a habit - a habit so hard to break that it becomes our values. Values that we often keep. Determining our destiny. Destiny that we didn't want nor plan from the start of this all.



Good news is, it's never too late to start something. Change the way you think over things whether good or bad. Believe in your own strength, but never be afraid to ask help. Ask. The reason why there are other people is to help one another. Speak and you shall receive. This will enable us build a relationship. A relationship that will only grow with values that worth keeping. And as we keep it, it becomes a ritual. An everyday thing that we do unconditionally. Not knowing that the good that we do, is the same thing that will bring us to something brighter. Now that's destiny.
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And in celebration of positive outlook in life, we thought of having a floral theme for this week's post. Flowers are nothing but sweetness and good vibes. Never fail in giving us the giggles and the butterflies. I'm wearing this dress that I got from Bloggers United 5. Neat floral patterns in a very girly color and design. And it did captured the look I am aiming for.



It's always fun to experiment even in fashion and style. I decided to mix and match what I had in my closet and Tada! Here's what I came up with. Yep, those are stockings I'm wearing. An absolute essential in every woman's wardrobe. It makes you look bold and stylish. I don't know if its just me, but these garments makes me feel sexier.


I matched my outfit with these stylish flats from Parisian. Adding up my new necklace from Forever 21. And I just love it! And to complete my look, I'm wearing my new pink G-lide from G Shock. 



The theme proves to be a though one for his side. It's a bit tricky but I must say, he nailed it quite good. My man is wearing a mint button down shirt with floral accents. Attention to details, that is his thing.



Covered by a gray cardigan, matched with mustard chinos. Keeping it light and neutral.



The brown leather soles are from Milanos. Finishing it off with a breezy green watch from G-Shock.



Let me quote the Father of Nation Mahatma Gandhi: " Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words. " Keep your words positive because your words become your behavior. Keep your behavior positive because your behavior becomes your habits. Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values. Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny. This sums up everything we need to know about positivity. :)

xoxo,
KC


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115 comments:

  1. I love your dress its so pretty.
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  2. Lovely dress!!
    Hugs :)

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  3. Love your style! This floral dress is perfect on you!!

    Xo, Hannah

    sweetsweetnoir.net

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  4. Love the floral dress with the add of the leather jacket.
    Looks great!

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  5. Nice blog! Would you like follow each other?

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    1. Sure thing. Thank you Claudina :)

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  6. Honey!
    But you are so cool! I love your dress <3
    Xxx

    Carolina

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  7. amazing outfits!! i love your blog so much <3
    follow?
    http://stormia-fashion.blogspot.com/
    kisses, Mai ! ♥

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    1. Thank you dear. Just visited your blog. :)

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  8. Very pretty dress!! <3
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  9. The jacket adds a very nice edgy touch to the look :)

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  10. Really inspiring post! I love the floral print dress and the flats with the detailing at the back of the shoe.

    Tas
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    1. Thank you for reading Tas. Yup, I love the spikes on my shoes too :)

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  11. Love the outfit!

    xo
    Jodi
    youngcatladyblog.blogspot.com

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  12. You are gorgeous sweetie! I love your dress!

    Beautylishious

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  13. love your dress and your boo killed it
    xoxo

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  14. Super inspirational!! Love your flowers on the dress :)

    Wanna follow each other?

    xx
    Sophisticated Lace

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  15. Beautiful looks!! would you like to follow each other with GFC and Bloglovin?
    Besos, desde España, Marcela♥

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    1. I'd love to. Thanks Marcela, visiting your blog now. :)

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  16. love the pattern on your dress!
    you look beautiful!
    kisses x
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  17. Never knew how to style grey leggings to be honest, but you did so quite fabulously!! Love your boo's pants btw, the color is so summery!

    peace, love, & utter bliss,
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  18. I love your pattern on dress:) Jacket is amazing:)
    xoxo

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  19. I absolutely love your blog! Your outfit is lovely, your man has got style too :)

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    1. Thank you dear. Appreciate it :)

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  20. Stunning!
    love the dress

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  21. I love the look. Very sweet and edgy. :)

    I hope we could follow each other. Thanks. :)
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    1. Thank you Nory.:)
      Sure thing, visiting your blog now. :)

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  22. WOOOW .NICEE!!!
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  23. Amazing look! I love the dress:)

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  24. very cool !!
    maybe follow each other?

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  25. Cute outfit! I was wondering if you'd like to follow each other. :)

    ♥Stacey Nguyen
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    I am having a giveaway right now with about $160 worth of stuff . Check it out if you'd like ;)
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    1. Sure thing. Thank you Stacey. Visiting your blog now. :)

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  26. i agree with you. you can't live a positive life with a negative mind.
    i like the dress sis...

    It’s a GIRL Thing

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  27. Beautiful dress!
    I love your friend's clock.
    xx

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  28. ohh i like your dress ! <33
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  29. Great blog, follow you now) Hope you follow me back, it would be fantastic;)

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    XOXO

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    1. Thank you Dasha. Followed back :)

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  30. Great post! Love your blog… follow each other on GFC/Bloglovin? Let me know & I'll follow back! xo
    http://chic-and-shine.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Alexandria. Id love to, visiting your blog now. :)

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  31. I loveee your jacket and dress, absolutely cute! And you both look great :)

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  32. Thanks for the follow.. just followed you back! xo
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  33. I like how you mixed advice with fashion it just makes the post very unique!
    I just started a blog, would you like to follow each other on bloglovin and gfc? Let me know!

    www.vworldrocks.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Vee. Appreciate it. :)
      Id love to, visiting your blog now. :)

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  34. cute, would you like to follow each other?

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  35. Hello! I'm hell a happy to visit your blog now. It's amazing, you did a great job! Would you like to follow each other on GFC, bloglovin? It would be very great and we could keep in touch though. just let me know!

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    1. Thank you Esra. Visiting your blog now. :)

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  36. Wow, you both have great fashion sense! I find one's chose of clothes to be a powerful tool against depression. 5 years ago I was terribly depressed and decided to wear pink EVERY DAY and it helped a lot!

    btw, followed you via GFC and bloglovin.
    follow back?
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    1. Thank you Ile. :)
      Dressing up when you're depress, that a good idea dear. :) And we love PINK too. :)

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  37. Hi, KC! Thank you for the love you left on my blog.
    Followed you back.


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    1. Hi Bella. Thanks for the info, i'll check out your page. :)

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  39. Oh I just so surprised come over your blog.
    You such a fashionable girl.
    I love the floral print dress :) your style sounds like Demi Lovato's!
    Anyway, can we follow each other here? :)
    Thank you that you leave such a beautiful comment on my blog.

    Delvalina

    delvalinatuanger.blogspot.com

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  40. Love the dress and cool jacket!
    Now following via GFC.

    Xo, Elsa
    Mix and Match the F word

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  41. Great post! I hope to see you in my blog sometimes. Thanks!
    Kisses from VV!!
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  42. im so into leather jackets and yours is so cool!
    it goes perfectly with your floral derss - i like combis like that!

    lots of love,
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    1. Thank you dear, appreciate it. :)

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  43. love the dress
    xx

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  44. Hey hey, I'm in love with your photos you have a "gift" for this, sweeter !
    First time visiting your lovely space and I'm already "addicted" girl your layout is amazing!! Keep going with this amazing job!! :)

    With love, Bárbara
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    1. Thank you preppy. You are the sweetest. :)

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  45. Acabo de conocer tu blog!! Tienes mucha personalidad y estilo.
    I FOLLOW YOU IN GFC!!! Y me haria mucha ilusion que tu tambien me siguieras.
    muuuuaaks ;D

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  46. You look pretty beautiful in this print dress.
    The guy looks fashionable too. :)
    Waiting to seeing more posts here.
    Plz see my post on boho wedding ideas
    xoxo

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  47. Hey,

    nice outfit :)

    Would you like to follow each other via GFC?
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